ST. LOUIS COUNTY, Mo. — During a heartening initiative aimed at fortifying familial ties, the Ferguson-Florissant School District hosted its annual "Dads, Dudes and Donuts" on Saturday. The event was held at McCluer High School.
This gathering, for its third year in a row, set out to provide a unique space for black men and their sons to engage in open dialogue, foster camaraderie and share experiences centered around growth.
For Chris Shannon and his son Christian, this event has been a tradition since Christian was in kindergarten.
"Talking to other guys. Bouncing ideas off of each other. It's a really good atmosphere," Chris said as he expressed the importance of the event.
The occasion acts as a catalyst for personal development, bringing fathers and sons together to strengthen their relationships.
Black mentors and young individuals were spread out across the venue. They engaged in conversations about mental health, overcoming challenges and becoming better individuals.
"Me just coming here to learn to be a better father. Listen to my son more. Be more patient with him. Things that I didn't really get with my father because of the absence early on," Chris Shannon said as he reflected on his own journey.
Bonding over shared interests like football, the Shannons emphasize the significance of instilling morals and values.
"Don't be selfish. Don't be like all give me the ball. Don't give him the ball. Just give everybody a chance," Chris said as he instilled essential life lessons into his son.
The event provides a platform for families to share such values and experiences. It also aims to connect families through various means, echoing the principles of organizations like Big Brothers Big Sisters. The event not only fosters family bonds but also encourages meaningful dialogue.
The breakout sessions include discussions on a range of topics, such as finances, relationships and the importance of being your brother's keeper. Attendees delve into subjects like GPA improvement, resume building and navigating complex family dynamics.
"It was a really good information setting for kids, young African-American men to learn and see mentorship."
"I tell the kids that I mentor ... that men ... we're builders. If you find yourself tearing down and destroying things, then that's not what we're intended to be and do on Earth [and] in our communities," Albert Harold, director of Family and Community Engagement for the district, said.
St. Louis County Prosecutor Wesley Bell and the district's superintendent Dr. Joseph Davis along with other community leaders spoke on a panel.